Forget helicopter parenting. It’s all about submarine parenting

It’s crucial that parents manage their own anxieties about their kids. “Ask yourself, ‘Is this a bad situation or just uncomfortable for me?’ If your kid looks to you, you want him to see you saying, ‘go for it.’ No parent is able to do this all of the time, but we have to realize we can’t make the world totally safe for them.”

More moms and dads may be parenting by the (science) book

No wonder there seems to be a growing thirst not just for authoritative parenting advice, but the science behind that advice. At least two books published in the past year are aimed squarely at parents and parents-to-be who want to know the nitty-gritty of studies covering everything from home birth to vaccines to pacifier use.